Our idea about success changes all the time. We chase one dream, accomplish it, then often realize it was not the right dream, or it was not what we meant and chase another version of that dream. Often the story is similar with some slight scenery change or different people or different companies, or different countries.
Nowadays, many people around us talk about true success being in pursuit of happiness, bliss. fulfillment. Can there be bliss, happiness and fulfillment if there is no financial success, and you live in a country, city that values money?
Let’s look at artists. How does an artist feel if he or she lives in a big city filled with money and people who can spend it on art, choose to spend it on shoes, nails, hair, etc? Artists become devastated. After all they dropped everything else; they were brave enough to pursue the dream, but at the end they only found themselves in the “starving artist” category. But then again, some artists do thrive. Can you name a few who are doing well now?
So what is the difference between these two categories: financially successful artist and a starving artist?
I have seen both types in my family. My step-father was financially and otherwise successful, and my uncle survived only because of my aunt. She believed in him and his art, and she was there to provide for him all her life. My uncle was so much fun to be around. We loved him so much for the joy and presents he had for us, kids. My step-father was as awesome as my uncle, though. He told stories about his experiences and trust me; these stories were life-changing. I bless every day of my life for my connection to them.
What was the difference between these two men?
Their thought current was very different. It would show up in the responsibilities they were able to take, the enrichment they radiated, how integrated they were. My stepfather never had an idea that he could not generate money and also never had an idea that someone else should be responsible for him and his family. My uncle lived “the starving artist” mentality. They were both successful in creating their worlds. One had support from others and little responsibility and another one was the pillar of strength for everyone around.
The first step is to recognize that the world we live in is the world that we created and then ask yourself if you are ready to do something differently. The dream that you always had is possible for you even if right now it looks like a black hole with no escape.
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